Do you tend to doubt yourself rather than believe in yourself?
Are you always questioning your worth and downplaying your abilities?
Unshakeable self-belief = conceited + arrogant + boastful?
We tend to rather dislike big heads who are always boasting about how wonderful they are and what marvelous things they can do. “Show offs and narcissists,” we think to ourselves. “So glad I’m not like them!”
But one thing you can say for the narcissists – they do have unshakeable self-belief. No matter what anyone else thinks, they believe they’re worth it, they believe they can do it.
And you can’t get away from this fact: people who believe in themselves are statistically likely to do better, measured against people of equal talent, skill and knowledge, than people who always mistrust and doubt themselves.
Will increased self belief make you into someone you don’t like?
This research finding puts us all in a dilemma. Will we become like those tedious narcissists if we have more faith in ourselves? (This risk, it must be said, would not bother a narcissist!)
Fortunately, the answer is no. If you’re not already a narcissist (and you wouldn’t be reading this if you were), you’re not likely to become one through getting on your own side and encouraging yourself more in life.
Instead, you will be giving yourself a fair chance, and enabling yourself to draw on all your strengths and resources as a human being, rather than just the few that you’re prepared to acknowledge.
So how do you go about it? Believe in Yourself is an audio hypnosis session that will help you take a fairer view of yourself and increase your chances of success in life.
As you relax and listen repeatedly to your session, you’ll notice that
- your expectations of yourself begin to rise
- you feel very curious to discover what you can do
- you are less concerned about mistakes and more interested in what you can learn
- you sense a growing feeling of power and capability within you
- you trust yourself implicitly to learn more and become increasingly skillful in whatever you give your full attention to
- life starts to be so much more enjoyable
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